Ali Baba Relationship Tips on Behind Every Successful Man

Ali Baba relationship tips on behind every successful man, Ali Baba the God-father of all the Nigerian comedians shared this tip which was reposted on Linda Ikeji’s blog. And what I want to do here is run a three part series on this thought provoking words. But before I began, a response from one Bonario Nnags also got me thinking. Here is what the follow had to say.

“Behind every successful man… These are not empty words. It’s not only about who the woman is. It’s about how much the woman allows you to become. What she does to help you become. How she understands you. What she tolerates. How she makes you feel… just so you understand where I am coming from, a lady who always nags and stresses you, will choke your thoughts.”

Ali Baba the God-father of all the Nigerian comedians shared this tip which was reposted on Linda Ikeji’s blog. And what I want to do here is run a three part series on this thought provoking words. But before I began, a response from one Bonario Nnags also got me thinking. Here is what the following had to say.

“The man builds the house, but the woman makes it a home. Marry a nag as a wife, and watch yourself get older than your age.”   

Marrying someone who nags both ways is the worst thing that can happen to anyone. Marriage as it is; is the last stage in life that draws us closer to our passage here on earth. And if you marry anyone what can’t give you the needed happiness, then you will live the rest of your life in misery and may have little or no chance in fulfilling your purpose. Marriage is what should steady us and gives your mind the right atmosphere for creativity and ideas in order to make your dreams a reality. And if you are involved with the wrong person, this to a large extent might never be possible.

Motivational Words Of Encouragement About Reciprocation And How To Overcome Loneliness In Life

“A lady who thinks you can never be anything will first kill your spirit, so even if you make it, in spite of her belief that you won’t, it would be by no help from her. You might just be challenged to make it because she is making it because you don’t want to lose your position as the provider. So, her success inspires you to achieve… you also might be driven to succeed if she celebrates you and you do not want that to stop… So if I get my drift… Behind every successful man… there is a woman…”

In continuation of Alibaba’s quote as stated above, it got to show that a woman plays a more role in the success of a man. Any man who ignored the importance of a woman might just be missing it all. The Good Lord knew why He made the woman to be a help meet. There is something about a good woman that brings out the best in a man.

We all have a creative mind and to make things happen, it is the ideas in us that paved the way. You need a steady mind to become focused and to build yourself up. And if your mind is not steady, sincerely, you might not achieve much. Ladies, what you should do for your man is to be your man’s best friend with the use of kind words even when things are not going on right as you expected.

Words have a way of either making or breaking us. So choose your words right to make your home right. Show an attitude of kind words daily, it is all that is required to make life worth living.

“Finally I say, there are many guys whose greatness was truncated not by their lack of capacity but because behind them were people who did not want them to succeed or did not help them to succeed. Be guided.”

In continuation of this last quote from Alibaba as stated above, success to me, is a two way thing. You need those who believe in you to help make a success out of you. And the person in your life is a strong voice that could help make it happen.

Ladies, what your man needs from you is encouragement and not discouragement. If you believe in your man, you have a role to play. And that role can only be played if you sincerely stood by him in playing the unseen hand in the game to his success.

Playing this game required that you encourage him with words that can make him see things in a positive way. If you keep acting in a negative way, what you have done is to kill morale and weaken his foresight in striving further.

It is sad when a woman through her utterances seems not to believe in you. This for sure is a disaster waiting in the making. Ladies, learn to guide your utterances. And guys do the same to your woman. Remember we all have an equal chance at fulfilling our destiny. And those who stood by you would always be those you remember.